By Jae Vitug World of Thoughts ©

Diamonds are often conceived as the strongest, the most beautiful, and the best find.

Drop a diamond on a sea of gold, wouldn’t it be the easiest to find rather than looking for the rarest piece of gold?

Drop a gold on a sea of diamonds, wouldn’t you still have chosen a diamond?

Isn’t the Holy Grail worth more than any diamond there is?

This resembles people’s misconception on choosing the best partner. They would consistently want whom humanity defines as perfect, and perfect, being, the diamonds.

Spare me.

Though it sounds vague, but I’d choose that one extraordinary gold.

I’d choose you.

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21 Reasons Sarcastic Women Are Better At Flirting, Dating And Partying

By Ashley Fern |  Elite Daily ©


Being fluent in sarcasm is a talent not everyone is blessed with, but if you are, it’s probably the greatest trait you can possess.

It serves as the perfect defense mechanism, and it certainly comes in handy when f*cking with people.

But where it comes most in handy is in the social sense, especially dating.

I mean if you really think about it, the only way to flirt with someone without being cheesy is with sarcasm.

Women who frequently take a sarcastic tone don’t really care about what others have to say.

Instead, they are focused on their interpretation of whatever situation they are currently in.

It’s a huge indication of intelligence, and honestly, isn’t that one of the best traits to look for in a partner?

So why exactly do sarcastic women absolutely kill it when it comes to flirting, dating and partying?

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How Long Will I Love You?

By Jae Vitug | World of Thoughts ©

I never thought love could be so beautiful, forgiving, and hopeful, until I read my own writing.

For those of you who just had their hearts broken, for those who think that it’s the end of the road, for those who needs a little guidance.

Then maybe if not me, maybe this, can help you believe again…

May 31, 2015

How long will I love you, how long will hold on to you, how long will I endure this pain, how long will I need you, how long will I want you, how long should I keep on believing, how long can I live without you?

As long as I can, as long as I still see hope in us, as long as I am bound to, as long as I love you…

I thought I could move on that easy. It’s been three months now since the breakup, but my feelings just keeps on getting stronger.

I used to hate you, until I forgave you, then I started to miss you, I knew by then that I am still loving you, that I never stopped, that I’ve always been loving you, only stronger than I ever did before.

After I met you, everything was about being with you. My life simply revolved around you, hence, I was left with nothing

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Men’s Wants and Likes: Thoughts About Sex and Relationships

By Jae Vitug | World of Thoughts ©

I tried my best to get the best answers for you girls, it’s either these men are afraid to answer my questions, or giving me bullsh*t to laugh about, but hey, hands down to the ones who gave me amazing statements.

I was literally laughing my ass out of some messages I’ve got, you don’t even wanna know, I’m dying, my boy friends are the best. I’m a man at heart too, no, not really, don’t think so.

But trust me, I’ve been surrounded by plenty of them, hold your horses, don’t judge too quickly, I like boy friends and gay friends more, they’re way less drama than girls. Plus, let’s be honest they’re more fun to hang out with, that’s if you want a crazy filled life.

I think I have been posting the downside of men lately, but come on, men could be the most amazing gift for women, so cheers to them!

And, no, I don’t have any problems with them, as I said I have lots of them in my life, I just want you girls to be careful, and those post are something I would want you to know.

Learning lessons are the best, sharing them would be the better.

Anyway, going back, curious about what I asked them? Well, it’s what they’d want on women they’d wanna sleep with, and what they’d like on women they’d wanna be with.

This would be a good and entertaining read I tell you, I’ve never had so much fun writing an article.

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Don’t Go Chasing For A Man Who Does Not Care

By Ella LaguillesCandy Magazine ©

I do hope you realize that you deserve much better. You don’t have to compromise for a boy who sends one-word replies after you’ve just sent him a very lengthy message asking how he’s been.

You don’t have to stare at your phone blankly, waiting for it to ring when he is out with his friends again and has clearly forgotten his promise that he’d call. You don’t have to settle for the way he makes your heart race when he finally remembers you after a week of silence and gets it all broken again as he mindlessly ends the conversation with just three messages exchanged.

Because darling, if he truly cares, he won’t call only when he’s lonely and down. He won’t ask for you only when things are not going well. You aren’t on his speed dial just because there’s no one else left to talk to. If you truly matter, you won’t be his last resort.

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